How do you convince an overanxious mother that-
a) you are not ready to get married now, nor will you be in a couple years' (or more) time.
b) that you do not want her to find you a husband.
c) in the very event that you do not find anyone you want to marry (and even more impossibly, wants to marry you), she should be able to deal with it.
Is it just me, or does the idea of spending your entire life with one person give you the heebie-jeebies?